The Dark Triad of Childraring
“Bottle fed is the worst, considering how long that goes on for. Circumcision clearly ritualized sexual torture…. C section is debatable on developmental impact.” - Anonymous
It's the oxytocin released during childbirth, if you don't feel this you won't pairbond as well, couple this with not breastfeeding and baby monitors and congrats your kid is emotionally broken and stunted for life and since they cant remember anything they'll never heal.
Don't forget the postpartum depression that make them treat you like a child that isn't yours.
African mothers unshook by modernity that have given natural births have like full fledged mental breakdowns if anything happens to their litter, they also hold them and touch them constantly they are full time mothers, modern woman could learn a thing or two.
This is a hard pill for a pill to swallow for a lot of people but like 90% of people I know have mothers who never pair bonded with them, and it fucks them up for life. and the worst part is the mothers will never take responsibility.
I can understand women who's mothers didn't pair bond with them, so it's just a cycle of abuse, but there's no excuse or empathy to a mother who neglects her children's basic building blocks of life that only they can provide when she had the privilege of pairbonding.
All the Casey Anthony's out there in the world are an expression of modernity and all of this shit parents selfishly do to “make their lives easier :)” (read: so I can make spreadsheets for my boss without having to deal with this DRAGG of a baby right boya haha).
Anyways yeah please breastfeed your kids and pairbond with them and don't put them in childcare and don't circumcise them and don't get a c-section unless you will die without and SLEEP IN THE SAME BED/ROOM AS YOUR FUCKING CHILD.
If you don't feel pairbonding oxytocin love you won't pairbond as well, couple this with not breastfeeding and baby monitors and congrats! Your kid is emotionally broken and stunted for life and since they cant remember anything they'll never heal!
Yes put your baby in a dark room with a camera installed watching them shit themselves and the only way to get any attention is by screaming loud enough for the monitor to hear.
This will prepare them for maximum security prison when they snap one day.